Just wanted to know really if you have mixed raced children and are white what uncomfortable truths have you come to know if any
I myself have mixed raced children but am black
i think my husband learned that you can’t manage racism to keep close relationships so sadly he’s had to go NC with mil and that pretty much means going NC with his dad and bother as well sadly
A-I did not realise is that some people with mixed raced children roundly view their children as white
B- some black people think I am a self hating black person for marrying somone white
I read this from a blog I am following it’s from white American mum who adopted a black child but I think this can equally apply to white mum with mixed raced child
As white parents adopting children of color, we must choose our children over our comfort. This means finding a diverse church or a church with black leadership, it means seeking out close friendships with people of color, it means having a Black Lives Matter sign, it means moving to a diverse neighborhood, it means kneeling for the anthem and protesting systemic racism, it means uncomfortable conversations with our white family.
Or maybe you learned some things that have surprised you in a positive way
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If you have mixed raced children and are white
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1981fishgut · 17/09/2018 11:28
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