Hopefully this won't be too long.....
I work 2 long days a week (11.5 hour shifts), DH works 5 days a week, out of the house 0810 - 1845. I have my 2.5 yr old when I am not working. DH more than pulls his weight at home, we have a cleaner and so home life runs smoothly. We each have a good social life separately and together.
Every Sunday morning, DH takes our 6 year old to rugby training, and takes the 2.5 year old with him. They are out from 945 until 12, and this is the only child free time I get a week, apart from evenings when they are asleep. I generally potter, do tidying, do some washing and walk the dog for an hour, and read the papers.
However, taking the toddler to rugby is becoming a real chore for DH. He no longer wants to be confined to the buggy, and wants to run around the field, into the woods, pet the dogs etc. It's a massive site. DH follows him round for 2 hours, occasionally trying to steer him back to where DS1 is training. Occasionally DS2 will consent to sit and have a snack. It's not much fun for DH, who works really hard and also does a lot at home.
I have not been asked, but I am starting to feel guilty about the above and thinking I should have DS2 at home or take it in turns to take to rugby or some other solution. I really really don't want to..... I also follows DS2 around whilst DS1 swims every week, and it's the worst hour of the week! Plus I have DS2 all the time when not at work and although he is fabulous he is absolutely full on and I love those couple of hours every week to myself.
DH gets no time at all alone in the house, although it doesn't bother him as he doesn't enjoy being alone.
AIBU to keep Sunday mornings for myself?
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Should I give up my 2 child free hours a week so DH doesn't have to toddler wrangle?
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Magair · 16/09/2018 12:01
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