Hear me out I’ve had a long week... so may be making a mountain out of a molehill
I am vegan have been for quite some time. Everyone knows and I’m not preachy about it and try not to be awkward about it, won’t rifle through packaging checking for errant milk powder if my friends have cooked something and even in places with no vegan food will go and order a side salad or something to be sociable.
I’m away all weekend for a friends 30th in a big hired house so self catering.
When it was being arranged people were talking about catering and what people wanted to eat I said straight away I’ll bring my own food as I didn’t want anyone to feel put out by me. Told not to worry/everything could be adapted.
Just arrived here and informed we are going out for dinner and due to the group size we’ve preordered, which I wasn’t informed about. And someone has ordered me a hallumi starter and a cheese-based main. When I politely mentioned I hadn’t been told I got really dismissively shut down by my friends older sister who said that it wasn’t their fault I was a faddy eater and everyone else is just having a set menu and I’ve already been awkward needing something different.
So as not to drop feed I did have a long term ED through my teens and a totally unprepared for REALLY high cal meal of stuff I can’t eat anyway has put me in a real spin.
I’ve had a really rough week but I just want to say fuck this and go home now
Aibu to be a bit upset.
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To be a bit annoyed/upset about this
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lastqueenofscotland · 14/09/2018 13:43
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