Am 16 weeks pregnant so might be hormones and I am willing to be told Imbu but this morning dh was asleep on the sofa while I sorted out dd breakfast and did a bit of washing at around 11 I woke him up and said " if you give dd a bath i will I will get the hoovering done and mop the floor down here because it's sticky" dh said he was happy to bath her but told me not to ask him like that again and that he doesnt need to be convinced to give his own daughter a bath I thought it was just a fucking prickish thing to say I asked him in a nice way and was simply just saying while he got on and did one thing I would be getting on and doing something else that needs doing. For context he works a lot so i do about 95% of stuff around here including anything to do with Dd like baths and meal times. There was no need for the asshole attitude at all and I told him that after he gave dd a bath and she was out of ear shot I told him I wasn't asking him to be shitty and certinly wasn't implying anything I actually went out my way to ask him in a nice manner despite being left to do everything on my own all morning as per. He's now sulking upstairs because I told him what a prick I thought he was and I dont see why he is getting shitty he picked a fight and he got one he is a good dad when he is around but definately not daddy of the year either men like this really fuck me off when they leave the mother to do way more then over half the work then when they do 1 thing they expect confetti everywhere but also want you to act like it's the norm and they always do it.
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To think dh was just trying to pick a fight?
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Givemeacookie · 21/08/2018 12:12
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