So there is a friends daughter who is 17, I was close to her and used to bring her for sleep overs at my house. I met someone when she was 15 and obviously He liked her as his little sis as did I. We are both in our twenties.
My DH is a respectable man. After we got married sim started to stir trouble for me and 17 yo girl. She started teasing and saying to DH how 17 yo fancies him and how she is gorgeous and how if she was older he should’ve got with her instead. Obviously DH found her weird.
Said sil started hanging around 17 yo girl And became best friends (sil is 20). After that 17 yo changed her attitude and started behaving competitively... seeking attending from Dh.
I felt compelled to recue my relationship with her so I told her that sil is stirring trouble and trying to get her brother to fancy that girl - gullible me thinking that her sisterly loyalty will make her not betray my trust. After that conversation her competitive attitude peaked and became so obviously flirtatious.
He noticed a few times that she would go out of her way to appear attractive and catch his eye and stare at him .. he informed me. I didn’t make anything of it at first, and continued to invite her.
But few times I managed to see infront of me that she was waiting for moments when I’m absent to go and seek attention from DH in a provocative way. I sometimes saw from a distance. Dh was always uncomfortable.
It seems like sil filled her head with crap.
Both are teenagers and I’m almost 30. So I’m ashamed that I would be picking on such age group.
I started distancing myself from girl... I think she is pissed off with me .
AIBU or am I just handling this in a childish way?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
To be annoyed at a 17 year old seeking attention from DH?
54 replies
ILoveHumanity · 20/08/2018 23:31
OP posts:
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.