Long story short. My mil. Never thought I was good enough for her son and told me so frequently.
My darling hubby passed away a year ago leaving me with a 12 year old and since then she has been trying to get me out of her life.
My. Ds is understandbly.upset..he wants his grandparents in his life but not if he has to choose between them and me.
I have taken him to see them and each time it ends in rejection as they say he shouldn't come in my car.. He should come alone. Or they won't let him in if he says mum sent me to see you
He has tried reasoning with them but they just say that they hate me and that's an end to it.. Either ds can live with it or get out their lives
Just last week they called ds and told him he was completely disinherited
We haven't been to see them for weeks and today I got a solicitors letter stating I was to refrain from any contact with them
They.do however want a close relationship with their grandson and all communications and arrangements are to be direct with them and not include me
So wibu to say no you can't communicate directly and make arrangements directly.. He is 12 and I am his mum.. I need to. Know where he is going when
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To think you can't expect to see your grandchild if you won'tt see their mum
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frasersmummy · 16/08/2018 23:50
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