So I’m due a baby boy in the next few weeks, I’m so excited and can not wait!!!! Only problem is I have a nephew and his behaviours is worrying!!! I love him to pieces but im scared my son will be influenced as he gets older by the way my nephew behaves!
I’m 18 and have many baby worries but I must say this is my biggest one!!
So about my nephews behaviour:
•he is 4 years old, my sister Is in school every night with him because of him doing something to get put on the naughty Face. He is already in 1 to 1 groups at school & been to see the head teacher!!!! He hits, sweats and is just awful to other children and the teachers... he’s took and dislike to one teacher so purposely acts up for her.
•I also have a sister at 4 yo, he infulences her ALOT!!! he will be told not to do something or say something and he will whisper to my sister telling her to do it so she gets in trouble! He takes her toys from her so she cries and then hides them, he can not share at all!
•when he gets into trouble he will either laugh at my sister or smack her. When being told off or told not to do something he will just walk past her like she’s not even there, like he can not hear her and carry on doing whatever he was told not to! She’s cried over his behaviour many of times!
•in school the other week everyone was at dinner eating and he stood on top of the dinner table and started shouting “I am the champion, look at me everyone” after all the class was told to eat quietly
•if he doesn’t get his own way he will ask and ask and ask until someone gives into him. If he is told no off someone he will blank them and carry on asking expecting someone else to say yes which usually my sister does!
•my sister cries at least 7 times within 4 hours because he’s either hit her, threatened her, took something from her and hid it. We can’t take them out together as it’s embarrassing constantly having to tell him to stop winding her up! This morning he took her hair brush and backed her into a corner holding the hair brush up saying he’s going to batter her with it! HES 4!!!!
•he can eat until he can’t eat no more and if someone else is eating he will take their food ! Normal behaviour but he will ask for something ie Chocolate so we will give him chocolate and my sister too, the same thing... he will throw his chocolate away and take hers from her.
He’s got to be centre of attention all the time and he gets away with it! I’m just so scared my son is going to get older see his behaviour and think it’s acceptable! Can anyone advise or put me at ease! :(
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Mummytobe2018123 · 15/08/2018 11:31
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