To not want sex on demand especially in these circumstances

[easylover]

We're in a caravan in Cornwall with 4 teenagers. It's not been the greatest of holidays 4 of us so far have had a stomach bug, I've been stung by a wasp too! The caravan stinks cos of all the soiling and one toilet between us all. My stomach is still funny I'm burping etc I don't feel very sexy, one child is in bed recovering. Dp thinks by sending the others out to the arcade I can just quickly bend over as he's randy and having a shit holiday. I don't want to, atm I can't think of anything worse, but he's being really funny with me now. Aibu or should I just let him do it to improve his holiday. I just want to go home!

[Llanali]

Er no, don’t just accept non consensual sex.

This can’t really be an AIBU can it? Of course you fucking aren’t.

[Moonflower12]

No way! It could all go horribly wrong and then he truly would have a 'shit' holiday.

[Singlenotsingle]

Tell him to piss off!

[AnyFucker]

Seriously ?

[KatieKittens]

Let him do it??
Yanbu. That’s not how a loving relationship should work.

[easylover]

Well he's making me feel unreasonable 🤷‍♀️

[easylover]

Wtf am I asking this for, of course I'm not he is

[MeMyselfand]

Tell him to be serious, he can surely wait until you get home and if not he can get acquainted with Pamela and her 5 sisters.

[CaoNiMa]

"all the soiling" 😱

[ChanklyBore]

Jesus Op that sounds like the most unsexy set of circumstances I can imagine.

Tell him to bugger off.

[Fairylea]

He sounds like an arse.

[Awwlookatmybabyspider]

Whaaaaaaaaaat!!!!. Tell me if didn't just read those words then
"Should I just let him do it to improve his holiday."
You don't let anyone do anything you're uncomfortable with.
I can't believe the selfishness of him. You're on holiday not well and all he can think about is ejaculating. Has he never heard of having a wank.

[Gazelda]

It doesn't sound terribly romantic!

But no, YANBU. Tell him no and not to pester you for sex when you're not feeling it.

[AnyFucker]

And they say romance is dead...

[FannyCornforth]

Bleurgh. How revolting.

[user1471517900]

He's not unreasonable to want sex. Youre not unreasonable to say no. Simples. Neither person has to be an arse here.

[ThePinkOcelot]

All of the soiling?! What?!!

[MissusGeneHunt]

Just don't. Not on holiday, not ever. Selfish bastard. Sorry.

[inneedofinspiration123]

Is this a serious thread?

[Stepmum3]

I am so glad that I am not the only one who feels you shouldn’t have to grin and bear it when it comes to sex.
I get fed up of my friends telling me I should put my partners needs first and override my own feelings.
I agree with the majority here. If he feels that horny he has hands. X

[Anonnymouse54321]

Just get the shits, all over him. That should curb his boner nicely.

[FannyFifer]

Shite on him OP.

[MissusGeneHunt]

@Anonnymouse54321

[Singlenotsingle]

Why don't you just pack up and go home? It was never a good idea in the first place!

[coffee88]

I think both of you should prioritise getting the accommodation into a decent condition for your children to be in