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To not want sex on demand especially in these circumstances

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easylover Sat 11-Aug-18 23:03:22

We're in a caravan in Cornwall with 4 teenagers. It's not been the greatest of holidays 4 of us so far have had a stomach bug, I've been stung by a wasp too! The caravan stinks cos of all the soiling and one toilet between us all. My stomach is still funny I'm burping etc I don't feel very sexy, one child is in bed recovering. Dp thinks by sending the others out to the arcade I can just quickly bend over as he's randy and having a shit holiday. I don't want to, atm I can't think of anything worse, but he's being really funny with me now. Aibu or should I just let him do it to improve his holiday. I just want to go home!

Llanali Sat 11-Aug-18 23:06:22

Er no, don’t just accept non consensual sex.

This can’t really be an AIBU can it? Of course you fucking aren’t.

Moonflower12 Sat 11-Aug-18 23:06:23

No way! It could all go horribly wrong and then he truly would have a 'shit' holiday.

Singlenotsingle Sat 11-Aug-18 23:07:03

Tell him to piss off!

AnyFucker Sat 11-Aug-18 23:07:12

Seriously ?

KatieKittens Sat 11-Aug-18 23:07:40

Let him do it??
Yanbu. That’s not how a loving relationship should work.

easylover Sat 11-Aug-18 23:07:54

Well he's making me feel unreasonable 🤷‍♀️

easylover Sat 11-Aug-18 23:08:45

Wtf am I asking this for, of course I'm not he is angry

MeMyselfand Sat 11-Aug-18 23:09:04

Tell him to be serious, he can surely wait until you get home and if not he can get acquainted with Pamela and her 5 sisters.

CaoNiMa Sat 11-Aug-18 23:09:24

"all the soiling" 😱

ChanklyBore Sat 11-Aug-18 23:09:43

Jesus Op that sounds like the most unsexy set of circumstances I can imagine.

Tell him to bugger off.

Fairylea Sat 11-Aug-18 23:10:02

He sounds like an arse.

Awwlookatmybabyspider Sat 11-Aug-18 23:10:05

Whaaaaaaaaaat!!!!. Tell me if didn't just read those words then
"Should I just let him do it to improve his holiday."
You don't let anyone do anything you're uncomfortable with.
I can't believe the selfishness of him. You're on holiday not well and all he can think about is ejaculating. Has he never heard of having a wank.

Gazelda Sat 11-Aug-18 23:10:24

It doesn't sound terribly romantic!

But no, YANBU. Tell him no and not to pester you for sex when you're not feeling it.

AnyFucker Sat 11-Aug-18 23:11:13

And they say romance is dead...

FannyCornforth Sat 11-Aug-18 23:11:59

Bleurgh. How revolting.

user1471517900 Sat 11-Aug-18 23:12:09

He's not unreasonable to want sex. Youre not unreasonable to say no. Simples. Neither person has to be an arse here.

ThePinkOcelot Sat 11-Aug-18 23:13:05

All of the soiling?! What?!!

MissusGeneHunt Sat 11-Aug-18 23:14:07

Just don't. Not on holiday, not ever. Selfish bastard. Sorry.

inneedofinspiration123 Sat 11-Aug-18 23:14:12

Is this a serious thread?

Stepmum3 Sat 11-Aug-18 23:14:38

I am so glad that I am not the only one who feels you shouldn’t have to grin and bear it when it comes to sex.
I get fed up of my friends telling me I should put my partners needs first and override my own feelings.
I agree with the majority here. If he feels that horny he has hands. X

Anonnymouse54321 Sat 11-Aug-18 23:14:39

Just get the shits, all over him. That should curb his boner nicely.

FannyFifer Sat 11-Aug-18 23:16:18

Shite on him OP.

MissusGeneHunt Sat 11-Aug-18 23:16:22

@Anonnymouse54321 gringrin

Singlenotsingle Sat 11-Aug-18 23:18:44

Why don't you just pack up and go home? It was never a good idea in the first place!

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