DD (9) is driving me up the fucking wall. Routine is to bed for 8.30/8.45 - reading then lights out around 9. Every single fucking night she gets up and wanders around, I can hear her as living room is directly below her room. She'll wake around 6.30 every morning without fail and then watch TV, she's miserable the next day and this has been going on for a year. I shout at her to get to bed, she'll call out 'OK' then still bloody mess around. H is fed up with it and claims I'm being unreasonable and should just leave her to it, she won't fall asleep until 11 - 11.30.
If I send her to bed then come upstairs to stand 'guard' are about on my bed on my phone she's fast asleep within 20 mins as I don't allow the extra 3 toilet trips or 'I need a drink' or someother bullshit . During an argument last night I said I had had enough and was going to come up each evening for a month to read establish a bed time routine for her, when I was up here before H would follow me up and start moaning he was on his own downstairs and it was crazy me being up here.
After I said my plan last night he started complaining again, I should just leave her alone and I'm ruining our evenings. All we do is watch TV anyway!! If I hear a floorboard creak though of her getting out of bed AGAIN I always tell her to get back, he then gets frustrated as when I shout he jumps and then we both get fed up with each other. I was never allowed to get up and wander about at her age,I went to bed and bloody stayed there!
So tell me MNetters - AIBU to expect my child to stay in bloody bed and not arse about?! 😡
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AlphaBites · 11/08/2018 22:36
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