Hi, posting for traffic really.
I am hoping to have advice from anyone who has ADHD or has children with the condition please?
I have for many years been diagnosed with General Anxiety Disorder, panic attacks and depression. I have been on and off medication and have generally found antidepressants unhelpful and have dealt with the symptoms myself, and am 'coping' with my conditions.
Recently my nephew was diagnosed with ADHD and I read up about the condition in order to help my sister. However I was alarmed at the number of traits I exhibit which I always have put down to anxiety.
- Inability to concentrate.
- Lack of motivation.
- Difficulty sleeping.
- Inable to concentrate on a task for more than a few minutes without moving onto another usually halfway through.
- Not listening to people when they speak as my brain is trying to work out what they will say next, or thinking about something else entirely.
- I have many projects in the home I have started and never finished, after a burst of motivation the urge fizzles out and they just get left.
- My brain NEVER stops. In fact meditation and trying to practice mindfulness is actually 'painful' for me.
- The only thing that stops my brain from endlessly looping is either reading or watching television and this is usually how I am able to fall asleep.
- Poor time management and always rushing and running behind.
- I was 3 months premature and apparently premature birth is found in alot of people with ADHD.
I did speak to my doctor who generally shrugged it all off. I think with such a long history and diagnosis of anxiety and depression they are unwilling to consider anything else at this late stage.
I don't think I would want to go on medication for it anyway if I was diagnosed, but I was wondering if there are any useful techniques people have found useful in increasing focus and concentration? This is the thing that bothers me the most.
It may be that actually this doesn't sound like ADHD at all? I'm just a bit confused as to whether it could be?
Thanks!