Background info - I work Monday to Thursday 8.30 - 5pm.
DH works Mon -Thursday 7.30 - 4.30 and Friday 7.30 - 11.30.
So yes, he works longer hours than me but not by loads.
I cook dinner around 5/6 times a week. I do all the shopping and meal planning. I do 100% of the laundry. I clean the kitchen almost every day and I do all the bathrooms including bleaching the bogs and washing the floors.
I walk the dog twice a day, he's meant to do it in a night but rarely does. I do the bedding, the hoovering and putting clothes away.
What does DH do? He puts the bins out. And the DIY.
Anyway tonight he's sat playing on the computer and I was playing in the PS4 whilst making dinner. He shouted through that I should feed the dog. I shouted back "can you do it as I made tea". Anyway it erupted into a massive row where he basically said I do fuck all and he does everything as well as working full time. He works slightly more hours a week than I do yet I feel like I bod every fucking thing around the house and my fuse has well and truly blown. I'm fuming and told him to fuck off. I'm sick of him fucking telling me what to do, critising, minimising what I do. I'm fucking livid and I've blown my top big time.
He's off in a sulk and I've shut the living room door as though to tell him to leave me the fuck alone for the foreseeable future.
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UtahStar · 10/08/2018 21:15
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