My husband has never been one to say nice things to me. He is more likely to tell me all the things I do wrong instead of right. I have gotten used to it though it is hard sometimes. Especially since he doesn’t seem to have problems complimenting others or perming and used to be loving towards me in the beginning.
Well I have been struggling a bit lately with being a SAHM and with my weight since having DS. I’m not over weight but have a belly donut.
It is our 1 st wedding anniversary tomorrow and we went out tonight for it. I got dressed up and put on a dress and heels because I know he likes it when I wear dresses which I don’t normally do.
Didn’t get one remark or compliment on my effort or how I looked however I thought ok nothing new unfortunately. Then throughout the night I felt like all I was getting was insults. At one point he mentions how I am a scatter brain and disorganized. Far from the truth as I run this house hold and everything else. Then as as we were walking we heard a whistle and he said is someone whistling at you and then I said I doubt it I feel like a cow in this dress to which he laughed and said yea a cow. I said so you obviously agree. His response was don’t be that girl who needs reassuring.
I left it. I am never that girl but once and awhile it would be nice to feel loved. He then sat at the bar and then made a comment about how I have shit chat and that I need to learn to walk in heels like other women.
My night just made me feel worthless. I’m upset and wondering if I am being too sensitive and taking things the wrong way. Do you think I am over reacting ?
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MamafromOz · 21/07/2018 23:26
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