I'm aware that I may get crucified for this but there maybe some useful responses and not just slating me...
I'm just coming to the end of my first trimester however we have already decided that I will be going back to work ft after 9 months (use annual leave before going back) and my DH will have 4 months shared leave followed by a career break (he can take up to 2 years) then go back to work pt. The ratio between career break/pt not yet decided.
My DH is excited to be a stay at home Dad for a bit. Got books out on pregnancy and early years for Dad's to see how he can support me through pregnancy etc.
There is no doubt I will be ft as I earn close to triple my DH, have always been career driven and love working and my DH will be fantastic. The problem I have is how to deal with people's comments....
Not many people know yet about the pregnancy but MIL has already commented its strange and I should only be pt and it's not fair on our future child, she was a sahm followed by pt when the children were older and still works pt.
Friend has commented I could never do that to my child but everyone is different I guess... Its their view which is fine but its the implied guilt.
I don't want to fall out with anyone and we are not going to change our plans it works for us. But I know that I will get more comments like this (especially from some colleagues who are pt workers) and wanted some tips in polite but firm responses.
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Plan to go back to work f/t how to deal with comments including MIL
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twiglet · 20/07/2018 09:27
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