I really need your opinion. Bit of a long winded history but here goes...
Two years ago I left a job I loved for more money. I needed to support my family and my employer back then couldn't increase my annual salary. I loved everything about it and it broke my heart to leave but I really needed to earn more money as a single parent. So I started a new job, which was completely different, with a higher salary so all good.
About 6 months ago old employer contacts me and offers me to go back with a promotion. Tore on my heart strings and I handed in my notice to go. Anyway, my current employer didn't want me to leave and changed my role, rearranged our team and gave me a BIG increase in salary. All happy so I tell old employer I will not be coming back after all even though it is my dream role, as I need to stay where the money is. Now six months down the line they have contacted me again and offered me more money than I could even dream about. It would be my dream job and I would be massively comfortable money wise and be able to give my family lots more, holidays etc.
So, if I accept the role, my current employer will be massively in the s**t! They restructured the team around me and made things happen to keep me. They will be completely short staffed and no one will know my role. I am a loyal person (don't mean to quote Georgia from Love Island!!) and I cannot bear the thought of letting them down. I do not even know how I would pluck up the courage to tell them.
However, we are talking serious money and a job I completely love.
What would you do? Stay put and be loyal and grateful that they helped me out and increased my salary 6 months ago or look after number one and my family and go back to the job I love with a HUGE salary which would give my family so much more - but be a complete cow!!!
Help and advice please x
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mumknowsbest47 · 19/07/2018 18:21
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