What are people's views on this.
Ex is self employed. Has freely admitted he pays himself the minimum to avoid tax and so that the maint payments for our child are in the region he wants. Freely admits his accountant does his books this way.
He does not want to pay Cms. He does pay but the minimum based on his 'wage' not on his actual income.
He wants me to declare what I spend on rent, utilities and food so he can decide what Percentage of these to pay. He wants me to disclose and provide evidence of what I spend on our child's clothes, activities, leisure, school trips etc and he will pay half.
I am not willing to do this.
I want a set amount each month so I can budget. I don't really care what that amount is but I want it done through the cms as I don't trust him.
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Ex doesn't want to pay CMS wants to pay half of everything
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namechangedfor · 11/07/2018 20:17
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