Will try and keep this short and to the point but there is needless to say some backstory.
I live with my elderly father who has Alzheimers. I have 5 other brothers and a sister. They are all married. I am not but have a long term partner.
My father relies on me quite heavily and gets upset if I make plans to see my girlfriend or stay over at her house. I do all the groceries and spend time with him, take him for lunch and trips out during the day. I work . He is at the minute quite safe to leave overnight, but this upsets him a lot so I only stay at my GF's one night a week when i tell him I am working a late shift to avoid arguments.
There has been a falling out in the family over money, one of my brothers and my sister are the attorneys for my father and they have control of his money. They won't let him have a bank card anymore.
There have been some issues raised about my late uncles estate which was also managed by the same siblings. large sums of money had been taken and used for their personal gain and this has made things difficult in the family as they refuse to discuss dads finances with anyone.
The house dad and I live in is in the joint names of me and my siblings, and until the issue of money being missing came up I paid £500 a month into dad's account for my board. I stopped doing this last year and have no got a solicitors letter from my brother and sister saying I owe them £7000 for back rent.
AIBU to say i won't pay this because i am part owner of the house, i have no idea what they are doing with they money, if i didn't stay at the house a full time carer would have to be employed?
Should i get a lawyer?
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FamilyDrama · 25/06/2018 11:31
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