I mean, I always end up lugging so much stuff about and It's so involved!
I am speaking about generally, but an example is, me and DP went to a party at an old friend's last night (friend had won a competition to have entertainment and was putting on a local band).
So we're to be there early evening. It's warm here yesterday so I am wearing a maxi dress. It isn't going to be warm later so that's a change of clothes to take. I couldn't face an hour's drive there in warmer clothes. We're staying over at a different friend's who's also attending the party, so I need another change of clothes as well as other 'staying over' stuff like make up and wash bags, toothbrush, hairbrush etc etc. All goes in a holdall.
We're trying to save money so don't want to eat out while away. I pack us some lunch, I don't know if the host friend is providing food and don't want to ask as it seems a bit CF.
So we're driving there and stop off at the supermarket. Get some flowers for the host (I would buy wine but given It's a party Id worry someone else would drink it). Also buy myself some prosecco and DP some beers. More stuff.
As we're staying a different friends (and will be drinking) I wonder if we should put the car there and get a taxi to party or drive to party and get a taxi back to friends and then have to go back to collect car in morning. If we dump car where we're staying It's paying for a taxi whereas we could walk to the car following morning if we put it at the party.
All such a faff! And lots of bags and 'Stuff' to lug about. But I never hear anyone else talk about things like this. In my head, other people would just arrive at their destination breezily in the correct clothes with everything they need and its all effortless...
It was a lovely fun gathering though. It's not a complaint, just wondered if I am doing something wrong or if anyone else ever feels like this!
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Doing stuff is such a faff, isn't it? Or am I missing something.
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RantyMare · 22/06/2018 19:19
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