To be honest, I’m a bit hurt threat she’s done it again.
Background information: I’ve known my friend from when our dcs were preschoolers and we often meet each other for coffee or lunch on our days off.
She has a habit of either cancelling at the last minute, forgetting that she’s meeting me and double books herself or is very late. She usually insists in going elsewhere when I’ve suggested the place to meet. Sometimes I agree to it and sometimes I stand by my suggestion which usually results in a rearrangement if fate because it doesn’t suit her. This hasn’t really bothered me when I happen to be in town anyway doing my own thing.
I’ve stopped making plans with her in advance now and only meet up with her when we’re nearby each other. So far it’s worked and I no longer get annoyed at her.
Today however, I got a text to say she may or may not be attending a birthday meal tonight, that I told her about a few weeks ago. Given that others will be attending, it won’t be as if It’s being cancelled. However, I feel a little hurt this time.
Not sure what to do. She is good company when I manage to see her but I don’t want to be take. For granted. I don’t feel as she values me as a friend.
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Patience wearing thin with flaky friend
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xsquared · 22/06/2018 12:41
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