I am part of a group of women who do semi personal training sessions together. We team up to make it cheaper and a bit more sociable, using a WhatsApp group to arrange sessions with people joining up as hoc each week so not always the same people and you don’t always know who is going to be there when you arrive, as the trainer joins us together too. We all used to go to the same gym but I didn’t know all of the women in this group until this arrangement began.
In this wider group of 8, there is a cliquey group of 3 which is fine. I don’t partake in that shit or drama and I’m ok with just being training buddies and nothing more, however there is the occasional night out etc which I like to go on.
Anyway, one of the 3 cliquey ones has decided she doesn’t like me. I don’t know why, don’t really care, not everyone likes everyone. However, recently I’ve been picking up on things where she is being really arsey with me, and a few things have happened that make it obvious that others know that she doesn’t like me, so she has been talking about me. Again I don’t know what she has been saying, don’t really care. She has also arranged a night out which I wasn’t invited to (just me), and removed my admin rights from the WhatsApp group.
I don’t think Ive ever had anything more than general chit chat about nothing with her so whilst I’m not arsed about her not wanting to be my friend, her actions are a bit strong.
Anyway last night I had a session with her and one other woman. She point blank ignored me when I spoke, she rolled her eyes at me when she thought I wasn’t looking, and she started digging me out about apparently putting weights down too noisily. I was livid and didn’t speak for the last 20 mins and left quickly as I didn’t want to make a scene.
I go to the gym to work hard, have a bit of a laugh, and have a break from life. I’m not having someone who doesn’t even know me spoil it for me, but I will not put up with this. I need to work out the best way to handle this without making it awkward for others or losing my head and causing a scene. I don’t like drama.
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BasinHaircut · 21/06/2018 08:05
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