Parent A drops DCs (aged 8 and 6) at breakfast club before school in the morning, at 8am.
Parent B picks DCs up from after-school club in the afternoon, at 5.30pm.
School is 7 or 8 minutes walk away from home.
Both parents work full-time, around an hour away from home.
Parent A has to:
- Make sure teeth are brushed, hair combed, PE kit, homework in bags etc before setting off.
- Encourage DCs to put on their shoes which is apparently the most difficult thing in the world.
- Get them to school by 8am in order to get on the train to work on time by 9am (c.55 minutes away so minimal leeway).
Parent B has to:
- Leave work early (by 4.30pm) to get to school by 5.30pm, via tube and 10 min walk.
- Encourage DCs to leave after-school club as they're invariably engrossed in a very important game that can't be interrupted.
- Make kids' dinner, coax them into doing homework, start bathtime etc, before Parent A gets in from work at 7pm (if not going out for drinks etc after work).
To me that seems like fairly equal sharing of responsibilities. Or is one inherently more difficult than the other? And which would you rather do?