I’m short, flat chested and have a chubby face. At first glance and from the back before they clock the bags under my eyes, and jaded cynicism some people think I’m a lot younger than I am.
I had my child at 23 but looked like a teen then. Ever since I’ve got ‘ooh you don’t look old enough to be her mum!’
Why am I supposed to take it as a compliment. The message is actually ‘you look like you must have been a silly teenager who got knocked up’.
I understand people do become mothers young, and feel compassion towards someone (usually) in a difficult situation, doing their best. I’m not slagging off teen mums, just asking what is meant to be a compliment about ‘you look too young to be x’s mother’.
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To think ‘you look too young to be her mum’ is not a compliment?
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TheActualRealCinderella · 13/06/2018 08:25
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