Friend spends the weekend with me then ‘reviews’ her experience, wtf!? Continued

[Biscusting]

Lost the other thread, can’t believe it filled up so fast.
CF ex friend has sent further message to say how sad she is about the loss of our long standing friendship, all she can do is try her best under difficult circumstances...

Thank you everyone for helping me form measured responses.

Now is it possible to block someone from sending messages or calling?

[Maelstrop]

Block her on FB, this means she can't message you. I'm surprised at her audacity saying this is so sad. She has entirely brought this on herself.

[Bearlover16]

This was just on loose women

[Aeroflotgirl]

I wanted to start a new thread, but I thought it wasent my place, but shamelessly looking out for a new one . YOur on TV Biscusting It is look at your contacts bit of your phone, at the side there is an option to block.

[LaContessaDiPlump]

Oh I bet she's desperate to make up without admitting fault so she can stay with you for free she's so cheeky!

[IamPickleRick]

Just seen this on Loose Women catch up and I would give Coleen's massively rehearsed “so this mate, right, says I’m in the area, right, can I come and stay, right” introduction;

2 stars.

[expatinscotland]

I still think you need to make it very clear there will be no hosting in July because this gal is cheeky enough to still show up! You were far too nice to her with that postponement nonsense.

I'd text her back ONCE: You humiliated me on social media, unfriended me when I messaged you about it, only took it down when you realised your free place to stay was in jeopardy, have the cheek to ask to still stay, then rant at me over your issues. GO AWAY! You are not welcome in my home or in my life. And then block her.

[mplINsTA]

original thread

[Biscusting]

Whaaaat!? Hope she doesn’t watch daytime TV! That’s really not going to help her MH.

[Aeroflotgirl]

Wow she was one hell of a CF, masqurading as mental health my arse. Who does that. Even if she did not have a good stay, it sounds like she had a lovely time at yours, you just do not do that, find alternative accommodation next time. If she wanted to document it, keep a private journal. Like others have said, I don't think a reputable therapist would advise documenting your personal feelings on social media for all to see and scrutinise.

[Aeroflotgirl]

Ha ha it won't, her fault, she should not have posted it so publically, its coming round to bite her in the arse.

[Aeroflotgirl]

I agree, you have been too restrained, I would have told her something along the lines of what expat has said, I have no time for crap like that.

[MsHomeSlice]

oh Loose Women! ...man I wish I watched daytime tv!

I hope your friend did see it, and it now realising that her anxiety and MH issues are NOT the GetOutOfJail card she always wanted!

[FiestaThenSiesta]

Did Loose Women mention it was on mumsnet or just social media? She would probably think someone screen captured her FB post and be flattered.

l

[Ninabean17]

Really hoping the cf saw loose women today!

[KittyHawke80]

She hasn’t been ‘trying her best’, though, has she? She wouldn’t have had to put any effort at all into not writing that ‘hilarious’ post.

[IamPickleRick]

FiestaThenSiesta Coleen sort of told it like she’d heard it in the queue at Asda. No mention that researchers had robbed it off MN 😂

[Bridezilla2be]

Coleen sort of told it like she’d heard it in the queue at Asda.

Yes! Really annoys me how they shamelessly do this to MN all the time!

[AllyMcBeagle]

I'm just going to put a link to the old thread here in case anyone clicks on this new thread and wants to read part 1:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3273378-Friend-spends-the-weekend-with-me-then-reviews-her-experience-wtf

[Biscusting]

Hrmmm... before blocking, should I send the link for the loose women episode on catch up?

Don’t know if i’m being immature or whether this would be the perfect lesson.

[Aeroflotgirl]

I would leave it, she will hear about it in due course, just carry on being dignified.

[expatinscotland]

Wouldn't send her a link. Just make sure she knows she's not welcome in your home or life first or she's likely to show up in July, anyway.

[Leeds2]

What did Loose Women say about it all? That she was a CF, or that she had done nothing wrong?

[Biscusting]

Yes Expat, good point

[4dogs]

I wonder if she will just turn up in July as though nothing has happened? She sounds enough of a cf to try it.