DS1 is 12. He asked me to put his phone on charge earlier when he went to bed. There was then a phone call from a girl he knows (and 'went out with' very briefly in an 11 year old kind of way last year. I gave him his phone back.
However I've just been into his room to retrieve it and charge it up and saw the WhatsApp conversation.
I know I'm not supposed to read it but I did.
He's not being very nice to her. Nothing too awful but she has asked him out again and he is being a bit of a twat to her. In a slightly humiliating way/not bothered way. And told her that he'd told all his mates that she's asked but he was undecided.
I know I'm not supposed to have seen them so can't actually say anything but I would like to think better of him.
I would really like to tell his friend that she deserves better than that. And to tell him that he needs to be kind.
But I can't.
What do I do? Anything? Do I just have to get used to this sort of thing?
Am I raising a monster?
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To have accidentally read DD's text messages.
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catweasel44 · 09/06/2018 23:20
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