To explain, 34 weeks into second pregnancy. Hospital appointment yesterday at 11am for extra monitoring due to worries with growth. We were not seen until 2pm due to backlog, blood clinic was rammed, all that you’d expect of course and we were a little flustered with a cross, bored toddler and the worry that our LO isn’t thriving as he should.
We were told anyway that he has declined in weight again anyway and we need to prepare for early intervention; so twice weekly heart monitoring and steroid injections. Bit of a panic due to PND based on really traumatic labour with first.
Husband went home with LO while I was on tracing to check heartbeat as she had already been there all day and it was unfair. He was going to pick me and my sister up when we were done.
We were put in an assessment unit and five minutes into my trace a midwife came in and started a screaming argument with the head midwife who was overseeing my care. It got very heated and went on and on, really shouting at one another about laziness, no support and work ethic of the head midwife. Eventually the first midwife walked away still shouting and the head midwife started to really cry, shouting that she couldn’t handle the situation and was going home - and she left. My sister and I were sat in the bay, I was was hooked up to the trace machine and was waiting my first steroid injection. Someone did realise I was there after an hour but it was a really awful situation to end up in and felt - I don’t know - unprofessional of them? I understand that people have conflict but maybe not in front of patients who are likely there due to worries in their pregnancy?
WIBU to have a word with someone to express this? I’m already shitting myself about health of this LO and labour. I don’t like going into it with this staff drama hanging over me. On the flip side, I can appreciate my anxiety may well make me focus on this row so if I shouldn’t say anything, so be it!
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Ashedload · 05/06/2018 07:07
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