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AIBU?

That the age of consent should be raised to eighteen

162 replies

SEsofty · 28/05/2018 08:48

Currently the law requires children to be in some form of education until they are eighteen. The law prohibits under eighteens buying alcohol because they are not mature enough to handle it.

And yet at sixteen can legally become a parent. Not developed enough to drink and yet can make the most life changing decision.

The vast majority of sexual encounters don’t result in a pregnancy but it is always a possibility.

In order to be logically internally coherent about when as a society we think that children become adults surely the age of consent should be raised. So Aibu to think that the age of consent should be raised to eighteen

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DitheryOzzyOsbourne · 28/05/2018 08:49

Agreed

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RebelRogue · 28/05/2018 08:52

Yes because no under 16's are having sex now. And no under 18's would ever have sex if the law changed.

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Surfingwhippet · 28/05/2018 08:54

The age of consent when one person is in a position of trust is 18.

However we all know that hormones rage way before 16 and raising the general age of consent is not going to work.
Maybe use some of that extra education time to educate about sex and relationships so that in 99% of cases people are only pregnant when they want to be

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SoupDragon · 28/05/2018 08:54

What you say makes logical sense but not practical sense. It would be pointless really.

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NapQueen · 28/05/2018 08:54

I agree.

Im not naive enough to assume that teens wait til they hit the age of consent. But raising the age will help.

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TheEmojiFormerlyKnownAsPrince · 28/05/2018 08:55

I agree too. I think 16 is too low.

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IncyWincyMouseRat · 28/05/2018 08:55

YABU Let’s work towards more comprehensive sex education and easily accessible public information rather than criminalising normal teen behaviour. Teens are hardwired to want to have sex, changing a law won’t stop that!

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Nothisispatrick · 28/05/2018 09:00

IncyWincyMouseRat

I agree with the above. Stop turning teenagers in to criminals for normal human behaviour. Teenage pregnancy is also at an all time low, why the worry now?

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duplodancer · 28/05/2018 09:01

I agree

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KittenBeast · 28/05/2018 09:01

Never going to work. Wouldn't have stopped me at 16 and 17. Nope.

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Earthmoon · 28/05/2018 09:03

YABU.

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Surfingwhippet · 28/05/2018 09:04

If you compare with Holland in 2016 there were 92 pregnancies in Holland of women aged 16 or under compared with 2,821 in the uk.

The difference, better sex and relationships education and better access to contraception

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NotUmbongoUnchained · 28/05/2018 09:04

I don’t know anyone who even waited till 16.

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Lethaldrizzle · 28/05/2018 09:06

I did

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Tomorrowillbeachicken · 28/05/2018 09:07

No, raising the age will do nothing. I think the Uk should prosecute the eighteen/ nineteen year olds that get children under sixteen pregnant though.

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SameTerfDifferentUserName · 28/05/2018 09:08

I agree with you. YANBU! It is not about stopping teenagers having consensual sex, we know that’s always going to happen, it is about us as a society providing them with greater protection. It should be done in conjunction with better SRE.

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AlonsoTigerHeart · 28/05/2018 09:10

Changing the age won't stop teens having sex.

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MIdgebabe · 28/05/2018 09:10

roughly equates to 5 or 6 times higher pregnancy rate in 16/17 in uk than holland

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CaptainHammer · 28/05/2018 09:10

Agree with incy completely

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YouAreNotImportant · 28/05/2018 09:11

No.

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PurplePimple · 28/05/2018 09:12

I agree.
Dcs are having sex at 14 / 15 now - raising the age might mean they wait until 16 / 17 instead.

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RebelRogue · 28/05/2018 09:13

@SameTerfDifferentUserName how is increasing the age offer them more protection?

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KittenBeast · 28/05/2018 09:14

So someone aged 18 could be prosecuted for having sex with a 16 year old? Seems absurd.

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liminality · 28/05/2018 09:14

Hahahahaha oh lol. Nice one OP.

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tatree · 28/05/2018 09:14

Holland's legal age is 16 so it shows the raising legal age alone with no other changes won't have any bearing. Underage pregnancy and having sex under the age of 16 are two different issues as one doesn't necessarily lead to the other - it's about attitudes towards sex and education about contraception.

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