I've been with my partner eight years and we don't really go on 'dates'. We live together and on weekends we spend the time going to the supermarket, catching up on chores, and may go to Wetherspoon if I'm lucky
He has a hobby, and he will do this every Sunday or every other Sunday. It's not something I can get involved with. So she be been wanting us to do more together. I am a history geek and love going to historical places (castles, national trust sites, historical interest places). But whenever I take him he moans about how boring it is. He doesn't even give it a chance.
Today I said I was going out to one of these places, and he insisted on coming. He wanted to leave after half an hour and started moaning about how dull it was almost immediately. It was really embarrassing, it felt like I was with a stroppy child.
I am so sick of his behaviour. He doesn't want to spend money on meals out, I've suggested things like theme parks, attractions in London and various events but he doesn't want to go. He also loathes shopping so that would be a no too.
AIBU to want to do these things with someone, should I leave him alone and accept we need to do these things separately? Or does he need to make more of an effort?
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silkyk · 27/05/2018 22:19
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