So my mum thought it ok to tell me something my friend was saving to tell me herself today!!
Conversation went along the lines of... Have you seen so and so lately?
No, was meant to see her today but cancelled due to time of the month
She's put on a bit of weight
Oh has she? (I thought nothing of this because she's been trying to for a while now).
Yh, she's pregnant.
Oh you've gone and done it again!! First you told me when she got engaged and now that's she's pregnant! That is not for you to tell me. I'm pretty sure she wanted to share the news with me herself and I would have liked to have shared that special moment with my friend also. Now there's going to be no surprise factor!
She got very defensive and annoyed at me for being so 'extra' and said well now I know not to tell you about anything again! And didn't want to hear it when I tried explaining why I didn't want to hear the news from her.
Please tell me if I am being extra or overly precious in this situation. I'm really upset to be honest. Its only a few months ago that she told me she was trying for a baby and that I would be god mother, so to not hear the good news from her is a bummer.
Another special moment ruined between 2 really good friends.
Ps. Mine and my friends dm are also very close which is why she knows.
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DM keeps divulging special news that's not hers to divulge!!
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Roundtumble · 27/05/2018 20:33
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