Or is that just nuts?
DP and I have been together for 2.5 years, having our first child this summer. I moved to England for him and have no family over here and even if I did, I don't particuarly like them.
I feel MIL and I get on really well, she's so kind, fun, helpful and basically everything my own mother isn't. She's given me great advice and nothing has been too much trouble throughout my pregnancy when I needed her and so, she's kind of grown to be the person when I need advice and support. In return I try make sure she's involved in the pregnancy, sending her scan pictures, pictures of the nursery as progresses etc.
I'm not very good at reading people at all and quite shy, but I get the impression that she does like me. She texts and call a lot so I take that as a sign that I'm doing something right.
My DP can be a bit clueless and I'm afraid he won't be much support as a birth partner. I'd really like her there with me but I've no idea if it'd be odd or too much to ask as I am not her daughter. My midwives have told me I could bring in two people and I'd love them both to be there.
Is it completely weird to ask? Would you as the MIL feel a bit weirded out or honoured? I don't want to make her uncomfortable.
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summerlemon · 27/05/2018 17:00
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