Hi. NC as may be outing.
I am the oldest of several siblings. We have no parents. One sibling has guardianship over youngest siblings. Youngest siblings spend weekend with Grandparents.
Spoke with younger sibling today. Just finished mock A Levels and going to another house party but coming back to Grandparent's house where I am staying.
Messaged sibling at 9pm asking what time to roughly expect them back etc. Heard nothing for two hours. Eventually heard back until after 11pm. Asked them what their plans were. Said they would be back but not until 3am. Given their age. I disagreed with this and asked them to be back at midnight (apparently only 10 minutes away so nearly an hour to get back). Tried to call guardian sibling but cannot get hold of them so made the decision for midnight.
I do not think that my sibling would be happy at the thought of this one returning at 3am drunk. Also elderly GM cannot sleep if one of us is out (her house, her rules).
AIBU for imposing a boundary on a 16 year old? We don't have parents so no-one else to speak to about this.
I'm annoyed with her as I feel she's taking the p. If there had been a pre-agreed time with the Guardian sibling then I would not have had as much of an issue but they would not have agreed to this. There's an age gap of 20 years between myself and said sibling if that makes a difference.
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Vogue100 · 26/05/2018 23:46
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