DP is on night shifts. Has been for weeks. He gets in at 2/3am, plays PlayStation for hours then sleeps downstairs. Seems to think that because he's on nights that housework is not his duty. On weekends he makes no effort to sleep a bit earlier and get up earlier. He has a daughter and I end up looking after her until 11/12 when he finally materialises. I'm 17 weeks pregnant, tired, want a clean house and expect help doing normal everyday things. He was going to come to bed at 1 last night as he sleeps in our bed on a weekend but sat on his computer game from 11pm-5am. Told him to sleep downstairs if he's going to bed past 1/2 but ignored me and woke me up at 5am on a Saturday morning. Can't get back to sleep as it's getting light and he's snoring away sweetly, probably not to be seen until 2pm. IMO this is normal behaviour for a student or teenager. Not a parent who's about to have another baby. Wtf do I do? I've told him about it, that he doesn't help, but he listens for a week and falls back in to his normal routine. When he's on days he's not like this. AIBU to feel totally lost, to think this isn't normal and to want him to try a bit harder? I'm exhausted by it.
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