Please, quickly advise, aibu?

[LuckySantangelo]

Dh says to me tonight, in just general convo about food ' the woman who serves my dinner is so rude, I pointed out the egg I wanted, and she said, get your fingers out, so I said, you weren't saying that last night'

I'm like he thinks I'm bu coz it's' banter '

[DarkRosaleen]

Nah, bantz is bantz, innit?

[Bravouniformmike]

Ew

[ScreamingValenta]

[HeedMove]

Thats fucking immature and disgusting id not be surprised if she put a complaint in about him.

[arethereanyleftatall]

Ltb

[ConciseandNice]

Gross. LTB.

[Sparklingbrook]

Huh?

[Chickychoccyegg]

Gross!!

[LoveInTokyo]

The fuck? Your husband sounds like a creep.

[Butterymuffin]

It'll be hilarious when she complains about sexual harassment, tell him.

[BadPolicy]

That's actually disgusting. I think I would loose all respect for DH if he said that.

[SandAndSea]

I made a similar joke tonight to someone about group sex. It just came out but it was funny. It's all about context.

[ArchchancellorsHat]

Yuck. No.

[RideOn]

He probably thinks it is ok if she smiled at him, as if she is thinking "wow he is funny" but more likely "ffs why do I have to be spoken to like that when I am trying to serve your food"

[yoyoyou]

What do you mean by 'woman who serves his dinner'? As in, at a restaurant?

[MissMary0fSweden]

The really sad thing is he's still repeating it, like it was quip of the year or something

[Mrsmadevans]

Suggestive creep , how can you bear him OP?

[TarragonChicken]

Yuck. No.

[feathermucker]

He actually said that to someone who was serving him food?!

That's absolutely vile, unnecessary and way beyond banter. He deserves to be reported (if thats even possible)

[RideOn]

Plus he really shouldn't be getting his fingers so close to the eggs!

[KioraAdora]

Burny fingers.

It is half term

[KioraAdora]

[bitmynailbrokemytooth]

Grim.

YANBU

[SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius]

Tell him people on MN think he is a sexist pig - and when he gets upset, tell him it is ‘just banter’.