I have just pumped 5oz for DS, left it on the side, just for a second, while I got a bottle to dispense it into... in that small time frame DH has emptied the lot down the sink. I have just called him every curse word I can think of. He assumed it wasn't needed, because I left it on the table. Bloody men!! I'm venting btw, I probably am being U for the swearing at him.
My LO was 3 days old, he had no wet nappies for 24 hours so my midwife told me to wake him every 3 hours and latch him on then told me to express and feed him what I could through a cup. I express 1 Oz of golden milk it took my 20 mins and my nipples were so painful as he had latch issues. My midwife came in a knocked the cup off the table, I bust out sobbing ! I can remember the feeling of that moment and the look on this lovely woman's face, she ran me a bath and brought me chocolate, let my LO latch in the bath (the first and only time I have fed him in the bath it was lovely) and then she put me to bed and showed me how to safely co sleep with him ... I loved my midwife so much at that point, she was just what I needed
He didn't apologise until I swore a lot and then cried. He has text me (I am now upstairs and he is downstairs) saying sorry again. I'm calming down now, mainly thanks to the comments on here. If he does it again I will be citing unreasonable behaviour in my divorce petition 😂
Well I have never pumped anywhere near that amount in nearly a year of breastfeeding OP. So even though DH deserves a karate chop to the windpipe, props for being an excellent producer of the good stuff.