My sister has been married for five years now, together for 7. They have three small children. To be honest, I've always thought her husband was a bit of a twat, but she thought he was brilliant and has always been very invested in family life, lots of family days and holidays out etc. She's worked very part time or has been a SAHM.
Eight weeks ago dsis was talking about buying a new house with her DH and having another baby. Nothing seemed different. I don't know what has happened during those eight weeks, but long story short, she has left her husband, has put the children in full time wrap around care and has been spending three or four nights a week with her new boyfriend. She's hardy seen her DC, but today I found out the boyfriend has now been introduced to them.
Dsis has some money (we both inherited from our grandmother) but she's never really worked and left university half way through, so she hasn't got very many qualifications. She hasn't really given us any reason for what has gone on- just that her marriage with her dh has been over for some time and that it's time for her to do what she wants. She clams up when we ask more, and just sings the praises of the new man
I suspect she's had an affair, but my issue is that things are moving so fast with this new man, and it's bound to be disruptive for the children. New man doesn't seem to have a job, so it's dsis paying for all their meals out and cocktails, but that money will only last so long.
I don't know what to feel really. She's always had a habit of dropping things half way through, getting bored easily and going for the new and shiny option, but I never thought she'd do this to her kids and I'm worried for all of them
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Aibu to think my sister is moving too fast?
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Mintoreos · 25/05/2018 14:52
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