I never thought I’d get married but now I’m less than 3 months til the big day. My mother has been an alcoholic for 20 years and has caused a mountain of shit, pushed everyone away. Her own husband, (my father) , me , her brother , friends etc.
Everyone else gets on fine. I’m going to sit dad with her brother as they still get on great.
She’s so poisonous .
Only ever contacts me when drunk
I’ve tried to help her but she won’t help herself . Everything about the wedding has been about her. Her feelings . The world is against her etc.
She can’t see that the booze is the problem but she won’t seek help
I can’t look forward to it as she is this big black cloud hanging over it.
Anyone else banned a parent from their wedding? Sounds harsh but I’m exhausted with her behaviour
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To not want my mother at my wedding
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Comps83 · 24/05/2018 23:08
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