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To wonder why Keiran Hayler puts up with how he's being treated?

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MycatsaPirate Thu 24-May-18 21:45:42

Yes, I know he cheated on Katie but why is he still there and looking after all five kids while she's away with some other guy on holiday? Does the man have no self respect? If he was a woman posting on here about this reversed there would be outrage and rightly so.

Also apparently she insisted on the camera crew being there when she told him she wanted a divorce. That's just belittling behaviour and if it was a man then it would be damned by every woman everywhere.

On the subject of KP being off with her new man, I feel very sorry for the children who face having stepdad number 4 in Harvey's case. I really wish KP would seek some sort of counselling and get her head sorted so she doesn't feel the need to have a man in her life to feel validated.

Raver84 Thu 24-May-18 21:49:29

There is something wrong with her for sure she seems to always belittle her partners. But hes a cheat so why even continue the relationshio? Why he has he stayed for so long? Probably lack of money to leave and start again. He's prob quite close to all the kids too.

Metoodear Thu 24-May-18 21:51:27

Because he not only cheated it was her best mate she caught them red handed and it was very public

You stay you pay

Metoodear Thu 24-May-18 21:51:50

Also she very wealthy and he’s was a builder or some shite

Metoodear Thu 24-May-18 21:52:28

I do agree with the parade of step dads very sad

BasilFaulty Thu 24-May-18 21:53:08

They have kids together themselves don't they?

So presumably they would have to either move out the children who aren't his or the ones that are. Neither of which are fair on either sets of children.

Butterymuffin Thu 24-May-18 21:53:26

All sounds toxic but I can't say I'm overflowing with sympathy for him.

NewYearNewMe18 Thu 24-May-18 21:56:26

He's there because he's being paid by her reality show to be there.

Lets face it, (I quite like KP) she's a bit of a car crash in her relationships but she can play the press.

JustHereForThePooStories Thu 24-May-18 22:00:07

Y£ah, I wond£r what h£’s hanging around for.

MycatsaPirate Thu 24-May-18 22:12:51

Surely he can't stay forever while she moves on?

I find it odd. I know he cheated, yes it's wrong. But you shouldn't have to pay for that forever more by being humiliated on TV and via the newspapers, not to mention her tour.

It seems that she's out to punish him endlessly. Surely if the marriage is over they should just divorce and he should move out?

I could just imagine a woman posting. I had an affair with my DH's friend. He caught us and the marriage is over. However, he won't let me move out and always publicly humiliates me via FB and Instagram. He's got a new girlfriend and they have gone on holiday. I am at home with our two children and his three children from a previous relationship. I have no way of leaving without the kids, no money and he has been posting pictures of them cuddled up in the hotel room together. What do I do? I know I did wrong but do I just put up with this forever?

alphajuliet123 Thu 24-May-18 22:15:45

What a bunch of scratty chavs

Sophisticatedsarcasm Thu 24-May-18 22:17:06

Not only did he cheat, but he did in the house she paid for, with her best friend twice and knowing full well he’s in the public eye as a result with being with her. Yeah she can’t be alone and she does belittle people but honestly I think it’s a defence mechanism. Especially with him, he hurt her so publically that I think it was small revenge she dished out, childish yes. He made his bed and so h3s got to lie in it. Same goes for her. But he knew what he was getting into.

twattymctwatterson Thu 24-May-18 22:20:57

In fairness he fucked her 2 best mates AND the nanny. He stays for the money. Don't feel a bit sorry for him.

Hohofortherobbers Thu 24-May-18 22:21:39

What's her new reality show? I'm missing out

raisedbyguineapigs Thu 24-May-18 22:24:07

I thought at the time it all looked very contrived and soap opera like. It was almost as if him and the friend and her husband were all on her payroll. He's basically the nanny. He's paid to be there and he's paid to put up with crap that she can use to keep herself in the crappy magazines.

hubbibubbub Thu 24-May-18 22:28:49

I think it's all
- either and arrangement and him and Katie were never together. He's an agreed sperm donor and she pays him

- the affairs were made up for drama

She's a narcissist or has histrionic personality disorder I think and he's become codependent/ the caretaker as a response

Hopefully he'll get main physical responsibility for his 2 children

alphajuliet123 Thu 24-May-18 22:32:23

She's never got over Pete.

GabsAlot Thu 24-May-18 22:49:34

i dont feel very sorry for him i think hes played it quyite well hes staying there for free and prob gets money still himself

but she wont stop with the men-why does she need a man so desprately-her kids wil now have to accept number 5 into their lives its just not fair but i dont think she give a shit really

JessicaJonesJacket Thu 24-May-18 22:50:05

Why would anyone waste any sympathy on a cheat? Why shouldn't he look after his own children and their step siblings?
I know there's not a lot of love for KP on here but I'm genuinely surprised at someone trying to spin this as KH being a victim confused

WittyJack Thu 24-May-18 22:53:05

Can someone explain to me why this woman is still famous, or why anyone cares what she does?

I'm not meaning to be snarky; I genuinely don't get why she has any fans when to me she is utterly talentless and has spoiled her natural beauty with repeated surgery. See also Kerry Katona - just why?!

GabsAlot Thu 24-May-18 22:55:40

no idea jack

it seems shes hard done by and a wonderful mother-still no proof of this all because she says how hard it is to bring up harvey

you kow with all her money and family and nannies

Mrsmadevans Thu 24-May-18 22:56:13

He is a kept man, a cheat and deserves nothing . Katie, whether you love or hate her , works her socks off to earn money. What does he do apart from shag around? Disgusting cheat.

theycallmebabydriver Thu 24-May-18 23:00:13

I see from that daily mail link that KP buys her tops from M&S grin

50shadesofgreyismylaundry Thu 24-May-18 23:05:34

I don't believe any of it is real. It's carefully orchestrated drama to put in magazines and whatever TV stuff she's doing. If this stuff didn't go on, she wouldn't have a career anymore.

hubbibubbub Thu 24-May-18 23:14:27

Anyone else think these 'reality tv guys / footballlers' May be set up by her agent for free PR?

They're both unknowns. And no way has she naturally met them from a farm in Sussex. And one right after the next is bizarre as different locations (Essex, the club with James argent and somewhere else for the footballer?)

And why would a 20 something want a 3 times divorced mum of 5kids woman 15yr older with lots of surgery doesn't make sense on face value

It's like it's all orchestrated and being released in a block over 2 weeks just
It's like it's pre arranged block probably 2 week before her realty tv show

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