A&B are unmarried but have been together for 25 years and have lived together for 20.they have grown up dc but none together.
They buy a property abroad with C ( child of B)
Suddenly B leaves A for another man. A is a bit of a grumpy old fart and C has no issue with B leaving him, although he isn’t very happy about how it was done.
A&B are initially quite civil but A is now getting a bit bitter about it all ( he is now in his 70’s and his health isn’t great so B has been looking after him)
6 months after the split B wants to take her new man to visit the property, she doesn’t want A to know. C is unhappy about this for the following reasons
- C is currently in negotiations with A as to how the property etc will be managed going forwards or whether it needs to be sold. A has no one else to go on holiday with so doesn’t want to keep paying for something he won’t use. A loves the property and the fact he feels he can no longer go is upsetting him. C doesn’t want to antagonise A at the moment as they need his cooperation. C wants to keep the propertybut how this will happen is subject to discussion A and C have always had a reasonable relationship
- C feels it’s a bit unfair that B is taking new man to a place where B&C used to spend so much time together only a few months after the split - seems a bit tacky .
Trying to,prevent A finding out is also a bit sneaky. C knew nothing about the new man until B had left A so has so far not colluded in any sneaking around
Who if anyone is BU