Can someone advise if I'm being off on this one.
Friend has two DC with exH. DC are 22 and 26. Friend has been divorced from ex 15 years, not amicably. Ex remarried after 5 years but there was no OW when they parted.
I've supported friend through numerous 'can you believe what my dick of an ex has done' scenarios and usually she has a point.
So, the exH's mother has died (ex-MIL of friend) and the DC are devastated. My friend is now insisting she should attend the funeral to support the DC. ExH has said no way and he doesn't want her there.
I'm struggling to support her position this time as, no matter how much of a pain the ex was, this is his family not hers and the DC are adults.
She keeps pushing for me to agree and encourage her going, and I've made the sort of right noises to be supportive but can tell she wants me to unequivocally back her.
AIBU? Should I just say yes, she's right and should just turn up?
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Sunflowersforever · 23/05/2018 23:37
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