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Husband AGAIN!

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Motherduckling Wed 23-May-18 17:57:59

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aloneandginger Wed 23-May-18 18:00:32

Pack his bags and show him the door . You are worth so much more

AnyFucker Wed 23-May-18 18:02:20

The more I read about other women's way of life the more confused I get

Why are you living like this ?

MissionItsPossible Wed 23-May-18 18:03:31

I misread that and thought you and your husband didn’t speak the same language and wondered why you married him... and then I realised I still wonder that. Do what the other poster suggested. He sounds horrible and selfish.

Lacucuracha Wed 23-May-18 18:25:58

Why does he control the car if it's shared? Drop him off at the gym and use the car yourself.

I wouldn't go back to a house where people swear at me.

Motherduckling Wed 23-May-18 18:26:55

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MyKingdomForBrie Wed 23-May-18 18:29:03

Definitely drop him off at the gym, don’t be dropped off to await his convenience!

You’ve already told him it’s not ok and it’s still happening - you need to assert yourself and say absolutely not again.

MyKingdomForBrie Wed 23-May-18 18:30:41

Who cares what he says about it - it’s your time to spend as you wish - how dare he! If he feels ‘guilty’ he should be taking dd to visit his parents, he’s a self centred prick.

troodiedoo Wed 23-May-18 18:31:01

Leave him he sounds awful.

Next best thing stop going to in laws and doing his share of chores.

Why can't you just stay at home?

Motherduckling Wed 23-May-18 18:31:12

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troodiedoo Wed 23-May-18 18:32:41

Problem solved then, you don't have to go any more smile

Motherduckling Wed 23-May-18 18:32:48

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Lacucuracha Wed 23-May-18 18:33:02

Well now you never have to go back there!

So they're sorted, now put your foot down with H.

Bluntness100 Wed 23-May-18 18:33:08

Why can he not take you home? Why do you have to go to his parents house? Why do you agree to it? Why can't you just stay home whilst he goes to the gym?

Lacucuracha Wed 23-May-18 18:34:35

I suspect the H wants the OP at his parents house so they can see the DC and he can go off and do what he wants.

Is he even at the gym?!

AnyFucker Wed 23-May-18 18:50:19

2 hours at the gym ? I call bull shit. He wants op at his parents where he knows where she is. Less chance of getting caught doing whatever the fuck he is doing.

Motherduckling Wed 23-May-18 18:54:49

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AnyFucker Wed 23-May-18 18:57:54

You are being made a mug of

FASH84 Wed 23-May-18 19:00:18

OP why didn't your insurance cover your car? Was it DHs idea to just have the one? I agree you could drop him off and then go home or do your own thing, also he doesn't need to go to the gym everyday, I'm sure you'd love a swim and sauna while he looked after the baby!

RebootYourEngine Wed 23-May-18 19:11:45

I would be getting the car keys and keeping them well away from your dh until he shows you some respect and you get a car of your own.

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