I have been through a lot since marrying my husband in 2011, my husband was lovely in the beginning but he started getting abusive and controlling when we got married. He would shout a lot, call me every name under the sun, not allowing me have a phone. He would push me in arguments and throw things at me, threaten to smash the tv, insult my family and belittle me in public under guise of jokes.
My mil has never liked me, I tried my hardest to get along with her but she thinks the sun shines out of his arse and he can do no wrong in her eyes, but she will find faults in everything I do from how I raise my children til how I cook and clean.
He doesn’t work and although I do everything in the house, she still moans at me for not ironing his clothes or cooking for him. She has told him he deserves someone better than me, she makes me feel worthless in my own home. But I’ve realised it’s not me that’s the problem, it’s her.
So after years of abuse from him and his mother, I have made the decision to leave.
I’m moving out in 2 weeks, but I just can’t help stop thinking about the way they treated me, and it really angers me that I’ve let them do this to me for so long.
I also can’t stop thinking about if she will like the new daughter in law better ? I know it’s silly and I really need to learn how not to give this woman any headspace.
So does time really heal all wounds or is it just a saying? Does it get better?
Obviously this experience has made me a stronger and wiser person, but I’m still hurting 😔
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Healmywounds · 23/05/2018 17:04
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