Met someone online, spoke a lot as just friends. Met through a mutual interest. Saw a couple of pictures that were just face and don't show much but didn't particularly care as it was just a mutual interest friendship.
We spoke about weight because it came up casually after I visited a museum and we were working out how many of us could fit in the thing, but I kind of mentally then had an image in my head of him (previously couldn't really picture his body as just seen half his face).
It kind of developed more and more romantically, so when there was an event for the mutual interest, we decided we would meet there. Met there and he is just so much bigger than the weight he said. It wasn't that long ago, so it's not as if he has gained the weight. I'd say he is around 8 stone heavier. I don't think he remembered ever telling me his weight.
I'm not saying weight is important, but I don't know... AIBU to now be put off of him?
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To be put off by someone pretending they are 8 stone lighter than they are online?
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yellowtraincoat · 22/05/2018 20:50
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