Desperately looking for help here. Last week A mother and child moved in with us to escape an abusive situation at home. I should stress there is no domestic violence at this point. Her dh is an ex addict, who has been clean for a number of years, but recently delved back into the world of drugs and alcohol. At first he could hide it well and was telling everyone who would listen that my friend was mentally unstable and losing the plot (hence making up lies about his habits). However, he turned up at our house off his head and the truth became very apparent. Since then he has plunged even further. Life at home became unbearable for her and her child as he was often aggressive and nasty (tho never violent) and was more often then not taking something. They moved in with us last week. We don't actually have the space but are doing the best we can. Since they have moved in he has gotten even worse and is refusing help. He has a big support network who are trying to get him into rehab again but he won't go. This poor woman doesn't think she can ever go home. Even if he does get clean he has told so many lies, there is no trust anymore.
I want to help them the best I can regarding finding somewhere else to live. The problem is that when my friend married this man she gave up her council house as she felt she didn't need it anymore and someone more needy could use it. She now finds herself in this awful position and doesn't think the council will help her.
Is it worth asking or has she shot herself in the foot? Is there anybody who has had any experience please?
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AstridPeth · 20/05/2018 17:36
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