A parent is organising an end of term party for leaving primary school.
There are a number of reasons why my daughter doesn't want to go to the party. I asked her what she would like to do. She said she would like to go for a meal with my parents instead. She's already arranged this with her Granny.
I told party organiser mother that she wasn't going. Party organiser mother took huge offence at this and sent me some abusive messages. I didn't want to get into an argument so I ignored these.
I've now found out that without asking me first, another mother has paid party organiser mother for my child. I don't know why she has done this, especially as she is on a low income herself.
Party organiser mother is now smug because my child is now coming to the party.
How do I get out of this without offending generous mother? I would like to keep a good relationship with her as our children are friends and are going to the same secondary school. Party organiser's child is going to a different school so I don't need to keep in contact with her.
Daughter is upset as she really doesn't want to go to the party and wants to do the meal with my parents instead.
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YorkshirePuddingsGreatestFan · 03/05/2018 17:52
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