Me and DH have been going through a tricky patch. And while on the computer yesterday I saw on his (open) tab on social media a message from him to a woman saying ‘I’ve still got your scarf with a grinning emoji.
She replied sorry, thanks, do you want to meet for coffee to get it back, and also to discuss x a shared interest.
He replied we can meet to ‘talk about anything you fancy’ grinning emoji.
Oh damn! Feel sick. I checked the woman’s profile, she’s 20 years younger and has a boyfriend but otherwise is just his type. DH has not mentioned this at all. He only went on social media a few months ago and she was the first person he became friends with.
What to do now? Embarrassed about admitting that I peeked on his page. I think I was a little worried. Years ago he got very friendly with a woman at work, got a crush on her I think, it never got physical but they discussed our relationship and used to also meet for coffees. We went to counseling where he realised that was insensitive.
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Over reacting to husbands new female friend?
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Orangeblosssom3 · 02/05/2018 11:32
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