I have name changed recently as was outed in RL following a thread, will probably do the same after this as this will be outing too but really want opinions.
My ex DH & I have been apart for about 8 years & we have an 11 yr old DS. Ex DH & his girlfriend have been together for about 8 years - got together v soon after we split.
Their relationship as been v off & on over the years, he cheated on her at one point which I knew about at the time & she later found out. They only moved in together 6 months ago as he liked living on his own & didn’t want to have to deal with the teenage dramas she was going through with her son.
She is always with him when he comes to pick up our DS & we’ve had a few awkward conversations where she’s been there when we’re discussing a parenting issue & I always feel it’s 2 (them) against 1 (me).
She recently came along to a new school open day as we were looking at senior schools & I felt it was inappropriate as surely our son’s education & choices is something me & his Dad should be involved in?
So, there was a “welcome evening” for parents & kids last night & I gently asked on Wednesday if ex DH would be coming on his own & when he asked why, I said “I find it’s easier to co-parent as a team when it’s just the two of us”.
So yesterday he rings be up, guns blazing, saying she is “part of his family unit” & “she spends as much time with our son as I do” - we share 50/50.
After the row on the phone which I ended by hanging up as I didn’t feel the need to stoop to his level, he ended up not showing up to the parents evening & then I had to drive completely out of my way (20 mins each way) to drop him off at his Dad’s as the agreement was that ex DH would take DS home after it finished.
I am raging - AIBU?
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SpringNewStart · 27/04/2018 06:00
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