To think that this is too much? Cleaner

willynillypie · 2018-04-26 17:28:22

Before we moved in together, DH had a cleaner. He paid her 50£ a week (London prices) which I think was a fucking pisstake for a 1 bedroom flat for 1 man living on his own (at this point she did no ironing but took all his sheets and shirts to dry cleaners which he paid for separately). But fine. I moved in and we got a dog and he wanted to keep her. I absolutely adore her - she is wonderful, although I think we are on too good terms now to the point where I feel uncomfortable telling her to do things, so do them myself. We moved away and agreed to keep her but pay her travel with a surplus so 65£ a week. This is for a large 2 bedroom place for the 2 of us and the dog (baby on the way), and she now does ironing too. Today she said because of the commute (30-45 mins depending on if she gets the train on time) she would like to start coming Saturdays instead of a weekday. I think this is now too much as it encroaches on my time with DH and she likes to work slowly so would be here for a long time/what about when we have people over? I am really torn because I adore her and I don't want to get rid of her, but AIBU to think this is now just a bit too much what with the price and the weekend?

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