Strange question, I know. But I wondered if anyone else felt like this.
We were close- unhealthily close, I now know- to a couple with two kids. Their youngest DS is in DD's grade at school.
Both of EXF's kids are OTS, and my house was, apparantly, the only one they'd ever settle at outside of home, and without their parents. I had a fab relationship with both of them!
DD tells me that the youngest (call him L) still gets upset at school, because "no one comes to my parties any more" (they were great friends with my DS too- despite the 7 year age difference between their oldest and my youngest, and we'd all rock up as a family!). He's apparantly sad because DD doesn't go over to play any more.
FWIW, I would have been happy for the kids to maintain some sort of friendship. Yes, it would have been awkward- I'm not sure HOW I would have managed it, but I would have.
And fuck me I miss them!
This has all been brought back to the surface agsin because I got a message from the DH of the couple out of the blue the other day, actually apologizing for the reason we fell out! For the sake of my MH there's no way I could go back to being friends. Part of me feels all sensible and grown up 😂for coming to that conclusion, and part of me feels like I'm a selfish cunt because of the DC's.
I'm a bit of a sod for either writing War and Peace, or unintentionally drip feeding, so apologies in advance for both!
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
Do you miss your ex-friend's kids?
7 replies
AllRoadsLeadBackToRadley · 26/04/2018 07:44
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.