I would like to know.
DP woke up in a foul mood with me this morning. As normal getting out of the house and on the early train to work on time takes a fair bit of mental gumption, I didn't bother asking why. Then I got to work and I was busy.
He responded to a fairly jolly text from me at lunchtime ('I need Nando's soon, I got a proper craving for it just now. Saturday? Everything alright, you've been quiet')
With: 'WELL I'm over it now but I wanted to kill you last night. Seriously. I was NOT happy this morning'
I was a bit
I'm not in the sort of job where I can bat back and forward in text, so I left it. But I was wracking my brains and felt a bit shit.
It has transpired, since I got in from the hellish commute at 9:30pm, that in the night I unwittingly caused DP to have no bed space by cuddling up to him in my sleep. Apparently he asked me to move and I responded 'but I love being close to you'
This isn't even true, I don't much like being close to anybody
I have no recollection of this event.
DP only got four hours of sleep and therefore had to cancel his five-aside-game
I said I was asleep and didn't know what I was doing and he shouldn't have sent such an aggressive message. He says I'm emotionally manipulating him into being the wronged party.
Do you apologise for things that you have no control over? In fact I might have done if he'd not been such a bloody arse about it.
He reckons KILL YOU is just a common turn of phrase and I'm ridiculous for taking offence.
AIBU?
Am I supppsed to beg for forgiveness for something I did in my FUCKING SLEEP
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