I had a miscarriage a few weeks ago and both my sister and SIL haven’t contacted me.
My mum says it’s because she told them I didn’t want to talk about it.
But I think when someone is going through something traumatic, obviously they don’t want to talk about it but you can still send a message of support? My other sister, friends and work colleagues have all said 'if you want to talk about it, I'm here' or words to that effect.
My SIL contacted me a few weeks ago when I was only just PG as she is pregnant too. She was bleeding and worried so I talked her through what to do, where to go, and then supported her through the next couple of weeks on and off, so it feels like a kick in the teeth.
AIBU to expect contact from them? DM says it’s her fault as she told them I didn’t want to talk about it but if it was me, I would still ask after that person.
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I miscarried... and some family members haven't contacted me.
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gibson2018 · 25/04/2018 09:27
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