Hi everyone, I’m 25 and currently single. I really don’t want kids, mainly it's because I have a super high gag reflex and lots of things make me sick, I can't even pick up after my friends dog without being sick on the grass so how can I change a nappy?
I've also had a few back problems and I’m worried that pregnancy is going to make it a lot worse.
Finally I don’t want to deal with the constant crying, lack of sleep and babies are so delicate I’m worried that something will go wrong.
Everyone including my mum says i will change my mind and I am being stupid over the whole gag reflex thing, they say it's different for your own child but I wouldn’t be able to wipe my mums or my sisters arse let alone change nappies all day. Mum really wants me to have kids even though my sisters have kids.
AIBU or selfish? Have any mother's have gag reflex problems? I know dads do but not mums :/
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I don’t want kids, everyone else wants me to have them
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theunsureone · 24/04/2018 16:10
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